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The holiday break is a time for family togetherness, but when you're traveling with teenagers, navigating their ever-changing interests and sleep patterns can be a bit of a challenge. My recent experience in Stowe, Vermont, reminded me of the importance of meeting my teenagers where they are to ensure an enjoyable family vacation.

Morning Adventures:

On a rainy morning, I found myself torn between the desire to include my teenagers in our family activities and the reality that they were not early risers. Rather than forcing them out of bed for an outing to the cider mill (okay, maybe not their first choice of activities!), I decided to embark on a morning adventure with my little nephews.

The cider mill, with its kid-friendly tasting room and freshly made cider donuts, turned out to be the perfect family activity for the morning. While enjoying the experience, I couldn't help but feel a twinge of mom guilt for leaving my teenagers behind.

Patience Pays Off:

Understanding that dragging them out of bed early would likely lead to grumpiness and resistance, I exercised patience. After our morning out, I sent a simple text: "Hungry?" The immediate response was, "Starving!" It was the cue I needed to swing by the house and pick them up for a family meal.

Exploring Main Street:

After lunch, we strolled down Stowe's charming Main Street. The holiday decorations adorned the storefronts, creating a festive atmosphere. We popped into the cute shops, picking up local souvenirs (every teenage boy needs another hoodie, right?) and enjoying the holiday spirit.

A Special Moment:

The highlight of our afternoon was unexpected yet heartwarming. While browsing a boutique, my daughter found the absolute perfect dress for her upcoming middle school graduation. Excitement lit up her face, and she asked me to grab her dad and brother to see her in the dress.

This impromptu shopping excursion turned out to be better than even imagined, creating a memory I will cherish. It reminded me that, even in the midst of family travels, special moments can unfold when you least expect them.

In the world of teenagers, flexibility and understanding go a long way. While it may feel frustrating when your teenagers resist early wake-up calls for family outings, my experience in Stowe reminded me that meeting them where they are—both physically and emotionally—can lead to unexpected and memorable moments. By allowing them to sleep in and joining up with them later in the day, I not only avoided potential teenage grumpiness but also created lasting memories that made our family vacation truly special.

Cheers to better travel with teens! 😍✈️🍎🎄

Mary Beth